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There is nothing more important to a woman than feeling safe, secure, and confident in her own space. But understandably some women living alone feel more vulnerable (myself included!) The Women’s Journal understand that personal safety is a top concern for many women, and that’s why we’ve compiled practical advice, strategies, and safety tips that will help you create a protective environment and give you peace of mind.

Empowering Safety Tips: How to Feel Secure and Confident as a Woman Living Alone

Living alone as a woman can be incredibly liberating, but it also comes with its own unique set of challenges. Personal safety should always be a top concern, and taking proactive steps to protect ourselves as women living alone is crucial. By prioritising our safety, we can create a sense of security and confidence in our own spaces

The Importance of Personal Safety for Women Living Alone

Women living alone often face higher risks compared to those living with others. This is why it’s important to be aware of our surroundings, develop good safety habits, and take steps to secure our home (and personal well-being as a result). By doing so, we can enjoy the freedom and independence that comes with living alone without compromising our safety.

Understanding Common Safety Concerns for Women Living Alone

Women living alone may experience a range of safety concerns that can vary depending on their location and circumstances. Some common concerns include home invasions, break-ins, harassment, and assault. It’s essential to be aware of these risks and take proactive steps to mitigate them.

One important aspect of personal safety is being mindful of your online presence. In today’s digital age, it’s crucial to protect your personal information and be cautious about sharing your location or daily routines on social media. By being mindful of your online presence, you can reduce the risk of being targeted by criminals.

Home Security Measures for Women Living Alone

Securing your home is a vital step in ensuring your safety as a woman living alone. Here are some practical tips to enhance the security of your home:

  • Install high-quality locks on all doors and windows. Consider adding deadbolts for added security.
  • Invest in a reliable home security system that includes alarms, motion sensors, and surveillance cameras.
  • Keep your home well-lit, both inside and outside. Install outdoor motion sensor lights to deter potential intruders.
  • Avoid advertising that you live alone. Use your last name and initials on mailboxes and directories instead of your full name.
  • Get to know your neighbours and establish a sense of community. Neighbours can be valuable allies in keeping your home safe.

By implementing these home security measures, you can create a safe and protective environment that deters potential intruders and gives you peace of mind.

We spoke to home safety advisors at Toucan about the most common security risks that people living alone face as well as their top ten security tips for women living alone.

“The most common home security vulnerability is scammers impersonating officials and tradespeople (for example gas engineers),” they say. “Which is why it’s crucial to always ask for ID and be aware of existing scams in the area before opening the door.”

“Another common mistake is homeowners leaving house keys or car keys close to the front door which makes it easy for intruders to put something through the letter box and retrieve them.”

“Lighting and landscaping play a huge role in deterring potential threats for women living alone.

“Intruders are less likely to target your home if it is well lit as they can easily be seen by neighbours or passers by. Keeping trees and bushes cut back ensures that there’s is nowhere to hide and no branches to climb on to access your property.  

“Our Toucan Security Light Camera is an excellent multi-purpose device as not only does it have the security camera, it also has a super bright LED light that can be set to activate when motions is detected or by permanently on at night.”

Toucan’s top ten security tips for women living alone:

  1. Always lock your doors when you are at home
  2. Never open the door to someone you don’t know, instead use a security doorbell or camera, such as one in the Toucan range, to communicate with the person first without opening the door
  3. Be aware of local scams which can include people pretending to need emergency help
  4. Join online local community groups to keep in the loop with what is happening in your area
  5. Once you open your front door to go inside, always triple check you have properly closed and locked the door behind you
  6. Make friends with your neighbours so you can look out for each other, maybe even creating a chat group with your neighbours 
  7. Always ask for proof of ID, checking authenticity of delivery drivers, police officers, repair people etc before the opening the door
  8. Never post on social media about the fact you live alone 
  9. If someone does break in, don’t put yourself at risk for material items – let them take what they want and call the police as soon as you are able to do so
  10. Download and save video footage of any suspicious activity you record on your camera and report it to the police as this could aid in future investigations even if you are not the victim

Building a Support Network and Emergency Contacts

Having a strong support network is crucial for women living alone. Building relationships with trusted friends, family members, and neighbours can provide an added layer of security and peace of mind. Here’s how you can build a support network and establish emergency contacts:

  • Inform trusted individuals about your living situation and share your contact information with them
  • Establish a system of regular check-ins with your support network. This can be as simple as a daily text or call to let someone know you’re safe.
  • Exchange emergency contact information with neighbours who can assist you in case of an emergency.
  • Consider joining local community groups or organisations that focus on personal safety and self-defence.

Utilising Technology for Personal Safety

Advancements in technology have provided women with innovative tools to enhance their personal safety. Here are some ways you can utilise technology to feel more secure:

  • Install a home security system that allows you to monitor your home remotely using your smartphone.
  • Use safety apps that allow you to share your location with trusted contacts and send distress signals in case of emergencies.
  • Carry a personal safety device, such as a GPS-enabled smart pendant, that can alert emergency services with your precise location when activated.

By leveraging technology, you can stay connected, increase your personal safety, and have peace of mind wherever you go.

The Women’s Journal recommends the Toucan Security Light Camera for women living alone. See what’s happening at your home clearly with the wide-angle lens, full HD recording, and crystal-clear night vision. The light can be turned on manually, on schedule, or when it detects motion.
It’s simple to install, packed full of high-spec features and compatible with the free Toucan Smart Home app so unlike other security systems, there are no monthly fees.

Mental and Emotional Well-being for Women Living Alone

Living alone can sometimes feel isolating, so it’s important to prioritise your mental and emotional well-being. Here are some strategies to help you stay mentally and emotionally healthy:

  • Maintain a strong social network by regularly connecting with friends and loved ones.
  • Engage in activities that bring you joy and help you relax, such as hobbies, exercise, or self-care practices.
  • Consider joining local clubs or organisations that align with your interests, as they can provide opportunities for social interaction and support.
  • Stay informed about community resources and support networks available to you as a woman living alone.

Living alone as a woman can be a fulfilling and empowering experience. By prioritising personal safety, implementing home security measures, and adopting practical safety tips, you can create a secure environment that allows us to embrace our independence while feeling confident and protected. Remember, your personal safety should always be your top priority, and by taking proactive measures, you can enjoy the freedom and peace of mind that comes with living alone. Stay informed, stay empowered, and live fearlessly!


  • Jennifer Read-Dominguez

    Jennifer Read-Dominguez is founder of The Women's Journal and a digital editorial director with over ten years experience in the media and publishing industry. Jennifer has led the digital transformation strategies for many market-leading lifestyle magazines putting SEO and e-commerce at the forefront. She is also founder of Jeneration Public Relations - a UK digital-first public relations and communications consultancy that provides strategic coverage for clients.

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